Helen Lee: Fashion, Life, and Learning

Happiness consists in contentment.

 

If it had been… then we would have…

 

Life is a long journey and we have to make a decision on each stage: some decisions are very crucial and will determine our future development, such as which school you are going to apply, how you will choose your lifelong partner from those pursuers; some seem not very important but they virtually have effect on our life course, such as we choose to be patient confronted with others’ doubt and query in order to avoid the conflict. The fact is that being an un-contentious person may have effect on the development of personality.

Although we may declare that “I never regret for my choice” in public, have you got one that makes you hold the grudge and feel regretful among all the choices you have made? For example, “we may still be good friends if we hadn’t been so stubborn.”

Talk about the option that you still can't let it go.

There are too many uncertainties and too many kinds of choices at the cross of our life. That’s why our life is so amazing!.

If I hadn’t played football in that afternoon before the examination, I wouldn’t broke my arm, then maybe I could go to the best high school. If I had made a different application, I would go to another university, meet with different friends and different things, there would be a totally different life. If I had  chosen chemistry as my major subject instead of Electricity, I would do better because that’s my favorite interest, now I wanna say that: go to hell with the popular subject! If I had screwed up my courage to express my love for her, she would be my girlfriend now….

It’s a pity that I can’t turn back the clock, I can’t choose these for the second time. DO you believe in destiny? Then whatever is destiny? That’s the question I always think about. Maybe you can look back over all your old memories at the end of your life, you will see, destiny doesn’t exist, that is you who choose the destiny.

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